All I know is that I love to play live blackjack with friends and with people who know how to play the game.
Also, if those at your table help you make the correct decision, which may not always be the right one, it is good.
Because all the players at a table are playing against the Dealer to win their hand and get something in return for their bets.
All the blackjack myths are what they are, myths.
And I believe that playing live games of blackjack is the best way to learn and find out why most of the myths are not true.
Live, play, and learn.